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	<title>Comments on: History of My Employment&#8211;Vol. 1</title>
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		<title>By: D. Fletcher</title>
		<link>http://bycommonconsent.com/2004/10/26/history-of-my-employment-vol-1/#comment-116223</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[D. Fletcher]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[395 Riverside Drive, at Riverside and 112th St. Apt 13G&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;(It&#039;s really apartment 12AG, but no one understands this. The 13th floor is renamed 12A floor in our building. My apartment is G, on floor 12A, hence, 12AG. Don&#039;t go to the 12th floor -- they hate to get my visitors.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;7:00 PM]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>395 Riverside Drive, at Riverside and 112th St. Apt 13G</p>
<p>(It&#8217;s really apartment 12AG, but no one understands this. The 13th floor is renamed 12A floor in our building. My apartment is G, on floor 12A, hence, 12AG. Don&#8217;t go to the 12th floor &#8212; they hate to get my visitors.)</p>
<p>7:00 PM</p>
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		<title>By: D. Fletcher</title>
		<link>http://bycommonconsent.com/2004/10/26/history-of-my-employment-vol-1/#comment-116224</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[D. Fletcher]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hey, Mathew, are you coming to the Blog party on Friday?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey, Mathew, are you coming to the Blog party on Friday?</p>
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		<title>By: Sumer Thurston-Evans</title>
		<link>http://bycommonconsent.com/2004/10/26/history-of-my-employment-vol-1/#comment-116225</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Sumer Thurston-Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I don&#039;t even remember that, Greg.  But I&#039;m glad I could help.  It&#039;s too bad the compulsiveness doesn&#039;t bleed over into my own house.  (I tell myself that is why we have Luisa.  You know, our Â“friend who comes over and helps us clean.Â”)]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t even remember that, Greg.  But I&#8217;m glad I could help.  It&#8217;s too bad the compulsiveness doesn&#8217;t bleed over into my own house.  (I tell myself that is why we have Luisa.  You know, our Â“friend who comes over and helps us clean.Â”)</p>
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		<title>By: Christina</title>
		<link>http://bycommonconsent.com/2004/10/26/history-of-my-employment-vol-1/#comment-116226</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Christina]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I don&#039;t necessarily agree that these types of chores are just make-work.  My parents certainly didn&#039;t have money for us (six) kids to get spending cash, so they expected us to earn anything we needed beyond the bare essentials (and I mean bare).  We had chores at home we weren&#039;t paid for either. So, I had a paper route, I gave trumpet lessons and played gigs, I did babysitting, and when I was old enough in high school, I got part-time jobs.  These weren&#039;t life lesson learning situations my parents created for me, they were necessary.  I always resented my parents&#039; stinginess until one time a friend I grew up with remarked on how enterprising my parents&#039; methods had made me.  I didn&#039;t just learn to play an instrument; I learned to support my financial needs with my hobby.  So, I&#039;m always grateful that my parents turned me into a little (independent) capitalist!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t necessarily agree that these types of chores are just make-work.  My parents certainly didn&#8217;t have money for us (six) kids to get spending cash, so they expected us to earn anything we needed beyond the bare essentials (and I mean bare).  We had chores at home we weren&#8217;t paid for either. So, I had a paper route, I gave trumpet lessons and played gigs, I did babysitting, and when I was old enough in high school, I got part-time jobs.  These weren&#8217;t life lesson learning situations my parents created for me, they were necessary.  I always resented my parents&#8217; stinginess until one time a friend I grew up with remarked on how enterprising my parents&#8217; methods had made me.  I didn&#8217;t just learn to play an instrument; I learned to support my financial needs with my hobby.  So, I&#8217;m always grateful that my parents turned me into a little (independent) capitalist!</p>
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		<title>By: CB</title>
		<link>http://bycommonconsent.com/2004/10/26/history-of-my-employment-vol-1/#comment-116227</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I think it is more a hallmark of people who have experienced hard times, or who fear they will.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Russell Baker, who used to write for the New York Times, says this about his youth in rural Virginia:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&quot;I spent my growing up years performing a variety of odd jobs.  These jobs were supposed to help me develop grit, a mysterious susbtance which my mother felt I lacked.&quot;]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think it is more a hallmark of people who have experienced hard times, or who fear they will.</p>
<p>Russell Baker, who used to write for the New York Times, says this about his youth in rural Virginia:</p>
<p>&#8220;I spent my growing up years performing a variety of odd jobs.  These jobs were supposed to help me develop grit, a mysterious susbtance which my mother felt I lacked.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: Steve Evans</title>
		<link>http://bycommonconsent.com/2004/10/26/history-of-my-employment-vol-1/#comment-116228</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Steve Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Mathew, we did have the same mother.  Wonderful woman.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Interesting how all of these completely menial and thankless tasks are just waiting out there for mormon youth!  I wonder though, if it&#039;s a hallmark of lower middle class mormons to have their kids in these types of positions.  I can&#039;t believe that Dave Checketts sends his kids out to paint Ms. Donner&#039;s fence for $10 or something.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mathew, we did have the same mother.  Wonderful woman.</p>
<p>Interesting how all of these completely menial and thankless tasks are just waiting out there for mormon youth!  I wonder though, if it&#8217;s a hallmark of lower middle class mormons to have their kids in these types of positions.  I can&#8217;t believe that Dave Checketts sends his kids out to paint Ms. Donner&#8217;s fence for $10 or something.</p>
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		<title>By: Sumer Thurston-Evans</title>
		<link>http://bycommonconsent.com/2004/10/26/history-of-my-employment-vol-1/#comment-116229</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Sumer Thurston-Evans]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[My mother taught me that when babysitting, it was very important that the house was clean for the parents when they arrived home, in addition to caring for the children.  This was the expectation for her (all the countless hours I babysat my siblings), and I of course followed suit whenever I had a paid gig.  As you can imagine, coming home to a spotless house (and I really did clean thoroughly- vacuum, sweep, mop, dishes, etc.) made me the most popular babysitter in the stake.  People would drive 30 minutes to come pick me up so I would sit for them.  IÂ’d like to think it was because the kids loved me, but I realize now itÂ’s because I was a 2 for 1 maid.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Now, that IÂ’m a certified project manager, I realize the term for this is Â“gold platingÂ” and it really is a bad thing to do because your customers will always expect extras for free.  I guess this is one case where the super work ethic doesnÂ’t transfer well into the business world.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My mother taught me that when babysitting, it was very important that the house was clean for the parents when they arrived home, in addition to caring for the children.  This was the expectation for her (all the countless hours I babysat my siblings), and I of course followed suit whenever I had a paid gig.  As you can imagine, coming home to a spotless house (and I really did clean thoroughly- vacuum, sweep, mop, dishes, etc.) made me the most popular babysitter in the stake.  People would drive 30 minutes to come pick me up so I would sit for them.  IÂ’d like to think it was because the kids loved me, but I realize now itÂ’s because I was a 2 for 1 maid.</p>
<p>Now, that IÂ’m a certified project manager, I realize the term for this is Â“gold platingÂ” and it really is a bad thing to do because your customers will always expect extras for free.  I guess this is one case where the super work ethic doesnÂ’t transfer well into the business world.</p>
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		<title>By: Mathew</title>
		<link>http://bycommonconsent.com/2004/10/26/history-of-my-employment-vol-1/#comment-116230</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Mathew]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sumer,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I babysat kids too.  In rural Idaho you were apparently considered trustworthy enough to take care of other people&#039;s children by 3rd grade--an age that might seem young unless you consider that you started driving tractors on public roads in second grade.  I would regularly take care of Sister Cartwright&#039;s three children AND clean the house.  Since I never put anything where she usually kept it, however, she soon began asking me to just watch the kids and forget the cleaning.   Doing the cleaning herself was easier than looking through the closests and cupboards for missing items.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sumer,</p>
<p>I babysat kids too.  In rural Idaho you were apparently considered trustworthy enough to take care of other people&#8217;s children by 3rd grade&#8211;an age that might seem young unless you consider that you started driving tractors on public roads in second grade.  I would regularly take care of Sister Cartwright&#8217;s three children AND clean the house.  Since I never put anything where she usually kept it, however, she soon began asking me to just watch the kids and forget the cleaning.   Doing the cleaning herself was easier than looking through the closests and cupboards for missing items.</p>
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		<title>By: Greg Call</title>
		<link>http://bycommonconsent.com/2004/10/26/history-of-my-employment-vol-1/#comment-116231</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Greg Call]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sumer, that reminds me. Cirila still hails and praises your name for the time you came over to our apartment on 75th street to &quot;help us move in&quot;, and you ended up scrubbing the floor with a toothbrush or something until it gleamed. You&#039;ll never know what that meant to my 7-months-pregnant-wife.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sumer, that reminds me. Cirila still hails and praises your name for the time you came over to our apartment on 75th street to &#8220;help us move in&#8221;, and you ended up scrubbing the floor with a toothbrush or something until it gleamed. You&#8217;ll never know what that meant to my 7-months-pregnant-wife.</p>
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		<title>By: Mathew</title>
		<link>http://bycommonconsent.com/2004/10/26/history-of-my-employment-vol-1/#comment-116232</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Mathew]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Yep.  What&#039;s the address?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yep.  What&#8217;s the address?</p>
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