I recently took an online test to determine if I am a helicopter parent.  Ironically, it was a helicopter quiz!  After every question, it gave me immediate, condescending feedback about whether my opinion was right or wrong.  And with several of the questions, I didn’t like ANY of the options; they were all too helicopter-y for me.  Let me give an example from the quiz I took:

When my child brings home a poor grade, I:

1. Run directly to the phone to call the teacher. When she doesn’t answer, I call the principal.
2. Talk with my child about the grade and contact the teacher to discuss ways we can help my child improve her academic performance.
3. Yell and scream at my child and tell her that if she doesn’t bring up her grade, she’ll be grounded.

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